Why Disorder In Your Home May Be Causing You To Lose Out On Peace and Happiness?

I am sure that everyone has a deep desire for ORDER in your Home and even more so, if you have children. Every home has structure. Where ever there is structure, there is order. Where ever there is order, there are people placed to positions.

In marriage, there is structure and order. God’s structure and order for the family is, “Christ is head of man, man is head of wife, then the children follow” (1 Cor 11:3). God has placed the husband, wife, and children in different positions in the family, so that when working together, the family will experience peace, joy and happiness.   

Structure and order also include rulership. After God created this great universe, he then created man and said, “have dominion over,” or rule over. It was at this time, responsibility was given. So, because the structure and order on the home is, Christ is head of man, man is head of wife, then the children follow,” then there must be responsibilities attached to the husband, the wife, and the children. It is important for a husband and a wife understand and execute their responsibilities to help maintain ORDER.

Remember, whoever you are placed to rule over becomes your responsibility. And those whom are under your responsibility, must understand what it means to be under your authority. If not, there will be opposition. Whenever there is opposition, there is chaos and confusion. Since God does not dwell in confusion because He is not the author of confusion but of peace (1 Cor 14:33), disorder comes into the marriage and home. This disorder in your home may be causing you to lose out on your peace and happiness.

To overcome disorder, you must start to operate in your God given roles. Husbands are instructed to love their wives, wives are instructed to respect their husbands. Operating in these roles helps a husband and a wife to bring order and reduce conflicts and chaos in the home.

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Dr. Delroy Fredericks

May your relationships be blessed.

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